What is legalism?
When I hear that word, I think of the Pharisees. They knew scripture better
than anyone else, but they used that knowledge to glorify themselves. But I
feel like Christians now who are stuck in legalism really aren't like that, at
least most. Sure you have your self-righteous, brother condemning type, but you
also have those who do good because they believe it to be moral and correct,
and they do good out of obedience. I once said in discussion group that
obedience out of legalism and obedience out of love will look exactly the same,
but the difference is in the heart.
What does it mean to obey out of love then?
To me, legalism is outlined pretty well in 1 Corinthians 13, the Love
chapter. It is funny how the other day I saw a picture (seemingly) of two
people dating and being intimate with each other, with this passage in the
caption. I would say the verse is taken out of context but still applies,
albeit I would also say those two do not know love yet as it takes years to
cultivate. Anyways in 1 Corinthians 12 Paul outlines an exhaustive list of
Spiritual Gifts and how we are to use them for the common good and for the
Body. But then in 1 Corinthians 13 Paul adds that if we use these gifts,
examples like tongues (v1) and prophecy (v2), or if we were to die as a martyr
(v3) or give everything to the poor (v3), but we do not do them out of love,
then they become legalistic and useless. Paul then lists out the attributes of
love, where if you replace every instance of the word Love with God, it all makes sense. The only purpose of Spiritual Gifts is to use them for the sake of others (John Piper). That is
how doing good works out of love looks like.
Lately I've been struggling with this at CMU's ACF. I have a lot of
knowledge I can share, and experiences I can draw upon to help those here in
their struggles or finding direction. But I can't help but feel slightly
prideful as well, and realize also that my experiences are my own and the way I
teach doesn't resonate with everyone's version of the gospel (who God means to
them, how they interact with the gospel, their own personal experiences with
faith). I truly believe that if I love my brothers and sisters, I must tell
them the truth. But the opposite is also true: Truth must be spoken in love.
These two are forever intertwined in scripture (1 Corinthians 13:6, Ephesians
4:15, 2 Thessalonians 2:10, 1 Peter 1:22, 1 John 3:18). If I try to speak the
truth to my brothers and sisters but I don't do it out of love, with pride or self-righteousness
or without gentleness and caring, then I will have accomplished nothing and
sinned against them. All in all, I just want to help people in God's timing,
and always have the spirit of vulnerability and gentleness, and be willing to
listen to people share about their brokenness. I also want to be able to share
about my past sufferings as well, and boast about how God and God alone helped
me overcome it all. And if I cannot do any of that, at least I can pray and give up control of my life and my influence in people's lives up to God, who is in control of everything. An older brother (in his 40's) in my mens group shared to
me that he believes God gave him all his struggles and trials to teach
him one thing, to be able to sympathize with those struggling now. I want to be
able to do that.
Please, please, please do not rebuke your friend with self-satisfying
relish. No one should ever enjoy rebuking a friend. There will be a
shaking voice, tears in your eyes, trembling hands, a sincere
conviction, and a heart dripping with gracious love. You won’t expect
them to listen to you, but to listen to the truth. Anything
else is just your flesh trying to prove a point. Then you need to go
back to the lab in prayer to wrestle that flesh into the ground. You
don’t ever rebuke to prove something. You rebuke to help your friend
away from the edge of death. - J.S. Park
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